Episode 6: James Flaherty on How People Change and Where Excellence Lives

James Flaherty taught me how to coach, created the organization where I met my wife, and challenged me to grow myself as a person.

That’s quite an influence for one person, don’t you think?

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In Episode 6 of The Amiel Show, I had the privilege to talk with James about some big stuff I’ve learned from him. We discussed:

  • 3:00 So much of our experience is an interpretation versus a fact “out there”
  • 8:20 Why self-observation is as important as 360 feedback
  • 13:30 Truly changing involves our bodies, social worlds, and language
  • 24:00 Excellence is evoked in relationship rather than something we create alone
  • 30:30 Aristotle’s notion of excellence, including all parts of ourselves
  • 35:45 What’s up with emotions in our culture
  • 43:00 Executive presence happens in the body
  • 51:50 What James is deliberately practicing to develop himself

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New Ventures West—coaching training and leadership development

Coaching: Evoking Excellence in Others by James Flaherty

The Feeling of What Happens by Antonio Damasio

Focusing by Eugene Gendlin

Qigong

Trauma Release Exercises (TRE)

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  • Ellen Robinson

    Are these the notes you refer to in the beginning of the podcast? Amielhandelsman.com/six?

    • Amiel Handelsman

      Hi Ellen, thanks for your note. I’m not sure I understand your question,
      but I’d love to hear your thoughts about this interview or respond to
      any question you have.

      • Ellen Robinson

        I am NVW also. In fact I’m taking the self-leadership class now with James and Steve March. I love your podcasts and have shared with other NVW alums in Denver. I liked the interview with James, great re grounding in our philosophy and methodology. I was wondering if there is a transcript? In the beginning of the cast, you mention that “notes can be found on your website.” so, I was wondering the extent of the notes, and if it was what I found in the podcast section.
        Thanks

      • Amiel Handelsman

        Hi Ellen, very nice to meet you, and I’m thrilled you are enjoying the podcasts. Thanks for spreading the word in Denver. I was just in Crestone for a week over the holidays for a meditation retreat…Good catch. I included transcripts for the first few interviews and then stopped since it’s time-intensive for my assistant. So I apologize I don’t have it now, but I’ll give some thought to having a transcript done…good idea. And I’ll change my standard intro to the podcast which I didn’t realize promised notes.

        I’m about to record a podcast where I (Knockman the Magnificent) answers questions about any podcasts or topics. Do you have one?

        Amiel

      • Amiel Handelsman

        Hi again, Just realized that the “notes” I refer to are not transcript but the “show notes”: the interview summary plus the resources listed