Women leaders’ double bind in one graph

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Hi Friends, Here’s something I sketched a while back. It’s based on stories I heard from clients and interviews from the podcast. What this says: women leaders who thrive walk a fine line between being too assertive and not assertive enough. Men typically have more leeway. What this is: an orienting generalization. It offers a valuable […]

Five keys to influencing up (Feb 19, 2020 issue)

Hi Friends, More mid-week actionable insights! Let me know what you think by hitting Reply. Five keys to influencing up Want to shape how a senior executive sees you? Here are five keys: Discover how she sees you today.  What’s her current take on you? What’s behind this assessment? Before influencing, let yourself be influenced. […]

Four ways to ask for a promotion with vastly different results

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Ask for a promotion if you aren’t offered one You don’t ask for a promotion because you want your boss to offer it to you. Getting offered a promotion feels great. She does the hard thinking. You don’t have to go to her, because she comes to you. And you are now in the driver’s seat. […]

Episode 89: GTD And Promise-Based Management With Michael Dolan

In this week’s episode, Michael Dolan and I show you how to bring about the results you want in life by combining two powerful action frameworks: Getting Things Done (GTD) and promise-based management. GTD, also known as workflow coaching, helps you manage agreements with yourself. David Allen, my guest on episode 13, outlined this model […]

Episode 84: Kavanaugh/Ford From Seven Angles [The Amiel Show]

This week I look at the Kavanaugh/Ford hearings and the conversations about it from seven different perspectives. You will quickly discover how deeply immersed (OK, obsessed) I’ve been the past couple of weeks, how closely I’ve followed both the minute facts and the larger political and cultural story, and, at times, how emotionally involved I’ve […]

Episode 79: Integral Mashup On Managing Promises [The Amiel Show]

Introducing… the first integral mashup on managing promises. I’ve pulled short audio clips from five past interviews and added my own commentary—all on the topic of how we get things done in life through conversation. This is my favorite topic in leadership development, particularly when meshed with other valuable frames, like the idea that we are […]